I pity the girl. They seem to be newlywed. She doesn't understand that she's in for a world of misery and depression.
How can a man follow his wife to go open an account and insist so strongly on ensuring that her middle name must be his first name???
"You don't understand. This is my wife!"
And so what?? Chai!
I don't agree with all that feminist stuff about our conservative rules/norms suppressing women. Those norms were there to PROTECT women, but times have changed. The White man came to Africa and spread narcissism around. Now, those rules are being used by these narcissists to endanger women. But it's not anyone's fault. No blame game. We're all responsible.
As a woman or a man, you should look at the kind of creature you want to marry. It's not difficult to detect a narcissist.
As a family, you should look at who wants to marry your family member.
As a society and government, we should crack down on narcissism and ostracize narcissists.
It's a collective responsibility and all hands must be on deck!
Like I love to say, the greatest threat to the human race in the 21st century is not nuclear weapons, it's narcissism. So, down with it!!!!!